You always need time for yourself mama….my man gets time for himself because me and my lo go to bed earlier than him…I get time to myself when lo is at daycare and he is at work…so yea it’s balance
It’s not “away from my husband” per sé but I do like to go see a friend weekly, her house or dinner/drinks and some dancing. We both have a hobby day and a friend catch-up day per week each. He does bedtime routine every single Friday that’s my night out, I clock out at 5 to have a shower and get ready, or earlier if I need to do my nails first that’s every 3-4w that I do my nails but usually 5 I’m in the shower and he takes over from then, until I get home around or past midnight.
My husband is pretty good at giving me breaks every once in awhile when I need them. My son only wants me when I’m around, so my husband sends me to our bedroom. I guess technically I get a break from both of them 😂