šŸ’”singleā€¦unusual vent

Ik this isnā€™t the right group but I kinda need to vent before I end up calling him crying for him. My daughters father ended up cheating and finding someone else a few weeks ago and told me I either agreed with the polygamist relationship or donā€™t and told the new girl we werenā€™t and arenā€™t dating. Man oh man was this a lie because we were looking for a place to live together I love him down bad I cant do it oddly I miss him so damn much I canā€™t stop thinking about him. It hurts but Ik it had to end because of how everything was going but damn does it hurt. We were together for almost 3 years and friends for almost 4 baby girl is 5 months and I canā€™t stand to see him because it hurts so much. Idk what to do.šŸ’”šŸ˜©
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Time will heal all the hurt and pain youā€™re feeling. Youā€™re in a beautiful journey of motherhood; focus on yourself and on your daughter. Be happy for you and her! Itā€™s better to end now than later.

youā€™re not missing him, youā€™re missing the good memories. heā€™s not good anymore though and he doesnā€™t love you because he wouldnā€™t treat you like this if he did. stay strong and do whatā€™s best for you and your daughter! itā€™ll get better, it always does ā¤ļø

@Tamara Iā€™m trying I really am itā€™s soo hard. A part of me is glad so I can heal and Iā€™m also in therapy for past trauma and it kinda looks like this may fall in line with it as well and itā€™s very unfortunate. Im learning to be able to focus on us two, my thing is do I contact him to update him on her or just keep waiting for him to call for her and ask

@kaylee it makes sense because the way everything happened was blasphemy kicks to the face is what it felt like. I feel dumb for loving him but itā€™s like it was all hidden within how he treated me I just couldnā€™t see. I just wanna cry all day but I canā€™t. I donā€™t know how to move on itā€™s so fresh

I hear you; I wouldnā€™t do either options if I was in your shoes. Iā€™d not wait nor initiate. If he cares/wants to know about your daughter or be present in her life, he will. In the meantime, refocus your energy on your journey! šŸ«‚šŸ¤

You got this mama you will see that this maybe a blessing. I know itā€™s hard but you got this I swear you do.

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