youāre not missing him, youāre missing the good memories. heās not good anymore though and he doesnāt love you because he wouldnāt treat you like this if he did. stay strong and do whatās best for you and your daughter! itāll get better, it always does ā¤ļø
@Tamara Iām trying I really am itās soo hard. A part of me is glad so I can heal and Iām also in therapy for past trauma and it kinda looks like this may fall in line with it as well and itās very unfortunate. Im learning to be able to focus on us two, my thing is do I contact him to update him on her or just keep waiting for him to call for her and ask
@kaylee it makes sense because the way everything happened was blasphemy kicks to the face is what it felt like. I feel dumb for loving him but itās like it was all hidden within how he treated me I just couldnāt see. I just wanna cry all day but I canāt. I donāt know how to move on itās so fresh
I hear you; I wouldnāt do either options if I was in your shoes. Iād not wait nor initiate. If he cares/wants to know about your daughter or be present in her life, he will. In the meantime, refocus your energy on your journey! š«š¤
You got this mama you will see that this maybe a blessing. I know itās hard but you got this I swear you do.
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Time will heal all the hurt and pain youāre feeling. Youāre in a beautiful journey of motherhood; focus on yourself and on your daughter. Be happy for you and her! Itās better to end now than later.