SAHM struggling and begging for a friend. (Long post warning)

I’m 28 f with 2 kids 10f and 2f. My husband is also. SAHD 100% medically retired and a full time student but. He sleeps weird hours due to late night studying and homework. And going to school. When he’s not awake or around I’m pretty lonely he’s basically my best friend and I don’t have that girl that’s my person and I feel like it’s a taken a toll on me mentally. Him and I are fighting a lot because I feel alone so I’m putting more pressure on him to be around which. He is around but he can’t be here 24/7 bc of school and sleep. I used to have a friend that would come over every day and hang out and we’d go do stuff but I found out she was making up rumors about me behind my back. So we don’t talk anymore. I guess I’m missing that bond I had with her. I’m just lonely and looking for my person. I live in the Indian River area of Virginia Beach. Not really looking for relationship advice on This aspect just maybe if someone is struggling like I am and would want to do this mom thing together … I think it would really help my mood and probably even help my relationship😂😭😩. I’m also open to long distance friends that like to FT while doing nothing 😂

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Would love to be your friend I don't live in your area though but I'm also 27 and I have 3 kiddos 13f 2m 1m. Best advice when he's studying or going to school make him little foods and do little notes

Mama I know it’s rough but you are worth more than that…we all are created for relationship not meant to be alone…but invite healthy relationships into your life because you are exponentially loved by God, it’s people that choose to do wrong and I’m very sorry that your “friend”hurt you…in times where you are alone it’s times where you can continue healing and develop your spirituality if you choose to…because truth is people will always let you down but the one who created you never will…whatever voids we feel as human beings nothing and no one can give us peace and love like Jesus can…now I’m not taking about religion just reading the Bible and going to church I mean really seeking the highest power for yourself and getting to know what and who that is, have a relationship with God just you and Him…encountering God supernaturally will change your life forever if you have not already, maybe you don’t believe in God?

But I would say that me going through the same things being alone that is the only thing that really fulfilled me…that’s the most important thing you can have is peace and a love that no matter what you will have…Jesus said He is the friend that layed down His life for you and if a friend is not willing to be there for you and sacrifice for you to lift you up when you are down then they are not worthy of you…nothing wrong with just socializing either but you want a true friend indeed because you deserve that ❤️…I’m here if you ever want to talk