Idk anymore

First my daughter is 4 months old my husband comes home and he's sitting there eating watching our oldest daughter play with kinetic Sand and next thing I know as I had our youngest in the back trying to get her to go to sleep I guess my daughter had peed outside of her diaper and it was my fault I guess then I guess the dogs using the restroom on the floor was my fault too I completely forgot that I slept baby cereal on the floor cuz I got distracted by doing the dinner dishes and putting away the kids' clothes
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I am so sorry

What the fuck tell him to get off his ass and clean it up himself if he can SEE it then he can CLEAN it what a tosser. Are his arms and legs painted on?

You are doing the best you can attending to your baby and making sure she is okay on top of holding down a house! I’m sorry that your husband is not appreciative nor supportive of all your hard work being a great mother to his children who provides, nurtures and cares for them. I am here for you, if you need to talk 🤗

Sorry that’s unacceptable. He didn’t need you to come help clean. Bullshit. Everyone is tired but has to do their part. Not ok to put blame on you. Not your fault.

Yeah he’s lazy and inconsiderate, he should be helping out not putting you down! He didn’t even think or use he’s brain. Idc if he works or tired, you work as a team together end of story

You're trying your best right now but he needs to be a bit more patient and more understanding so sorry that's kicked off but I think you need to talk in person about it with him communicate the feelings and tell him you feel this way and that you want him to be a bit more understanding on how this can effect you sometimes

He has seriously unrealistic expectations of you and low expectations for himself! Put your foot down and tell him about himself. Why do you have to clean it up when he has two hands and feet? You must be exhausted.

Divorce .

Just take a deep breath firstly. You are doing your best and you are doing a great job. My biggest advice here is to stop texting. Go and talk to him. Explain that you’re overwhelmed and just need some help. Texting doesn’t always read how you say it, and vice versa. My baby dad and I have a rule that if it’s a serious talk, we have to speak to each other. You and him are a team. Let him see the stress and not have to read it because he might not fully grasp it.

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