Feel ashamed
My son is behind in thinking he is 15 months old very quite and independent I never really played with him because I guess I’m just a dradbeat mom and I am a stay at home mom feeling sick to my stomach from guilt can’t stop crying he doesn’t talk he doesn’t walk and I fear we won’t catch up I’m ashamed I’m having such a hard time as a parent he doesn’t stack blocks or point to things he claps nods yes and no waves dances gives hugs takes few steps unsupported is it to late to help my son I never really knew what I was doing and I feel like my lack of knowing how to play with him put him behind and I feeel like the worst person ever
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I’m sorry you are feeling this way and also being a parent is so hard! I wouldn’t blame yourself for where he is, all babies have their own pace they take to develop. I hope you can give yourself grace and lean into these support spaces to know you’re far from worst person ever
Heyy you’re not the only one. My son who is almost 15 months old is currently in PT, OT, and speech just because he’s behind for his age. I understand that feeling you have. I’m a first time mama, I’m learning as I go.
Sign him up for classes.. there are so many classes for this age. My daughter attends swim classes, music classes, gym class, and story time at the library. Interacting with other children his age is a game changer.
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I often feel the mom guilt too. Being a first time mom. I think it’s hard to really know what to do. Someone once told me you’re exactly what your son needs. And I try to keep that in mind. Some days are easier than others. Sometimes I feel like the worst mom & sometimes I feel like the best mom. I think we’re always learning. Give yourself some grace. I don’t think it’s too late for him. I stopped comparing my baby to other babies and it has eased my mind so much. But if you are really concerned than there’s nothing wrong with looking into early intervention! Hang in there mama. It is hard ❤️