Need some help

Hey ladies I’m in a situation that I don’t know what to do…. My partner and I have been together for 7 years have 2 kids 6 yr old and 21 month old. We got into a massive fight a week ago and he physically threw me out of the house and ever since that fight it hasn’t been the same I don’t feel safe I’m constantly watching my back, I feel like I should leave him and get my own place with the kids but I love him and the kids love him…. I’m not sure what to do

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You need to get yourself and your kids out if you don't feel safe. What he did is inexcusable. Do you have any friends or family you can stay with?

@Megan I don’t have anyone other then his parents and that’s where he would end up going

Do what's best for you and the kidd kids

If you live in NY there’s some shelters that can help you to find a place to stay. There’s not excuse to abused you NEVER. It’s gonna be a tough decision but this community is for helping ♥️

@Daily valentina I live in Melbourne I have looked around for shelters but nothing here that is accessible for me

😪 maybe you can resist for a while and get a place for your own. Are you working ? If you’re not it’s time to beginning. I know it’s gonna be hard but the financially independence in this case it’s vital. How do you feel?

@Daily valentina I’m not working at the moment I went on maternity leave just before I had my daughter and my cpr expired I haven’t been able to afford to redo it to be able to return to work I do have a government income around $1,500 a fortnight but the area I live in is hard to get a house in. My income is the only income we have coming in. I’m honestly feeling numb I have adhd and my mind is just running nonstop and I can’t think straight

@Daily valentina I have also lost all of my friends since him, most of my friends were males and he stopped me from being able to contact them or see them everytime I have tried to reach out to them I get nothing back from them

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