My husband didn’t consult me about a getaway?

I’m just so fed up… I am never happy with my husband anymore. He is such a self absorbed human being I’ve made posts about how little he helps with our 11 month old & is hardly a present or good dad to him and on top of that barely gets time to do any of the house work either because he’s rarely at home either due to work or gym or attending to his single, dependent mother I’m beyond exhausted Now recently his best friend booked for them to go to a yoga retreat for 2 nights. My husband didn’t even consult me or ask if it’s ok he goes. I’m baffled as to why he even thinks it’s ok to just up and leave for a stupid yoga retreat when he has no interest or passion for yoga and meditation and sleeps in and gets good stretches of sleep at night. I’m pissed off at his friend for having no sense to understand that we have a small child and just book on my husbands behalf and even more pissed at my husband for agreeing and going along with it When I tell ask what he thinks he’s doing just going off without consulting me, he says “ what do you want me to do? It’s already booked, don’t be upset” Now he’s gone and I don’t get a single day / night off