Husband getting all defensive over mil
Hi, yesterday we went to a Family gathering.
This morning I noticed a few spots on my daughters loops and a rash on this one section of her head ( it looked like she bumped her head at first until I had a closer look)
When I mentioned it to my husband I said I wonder if someone might have kissed her or something and she has a reaction or something since eveyone kept on kissing her yesterday. He straight away said IT WASNT MY MUM. ( btw his mum gets cold sores lol)
I just gave him a side eye and was like I didn’t say it was your mum ? He was like ik but I’m just saying it wasn’t my mum.
I just was like wth I didn’t even say your mum, there was like 10 ppl there and it could’ve been anyone, I didn’t even try to assume it was anyone. It ended up turning into a stupid argument because he just kept on saying well whatever it is it wasn’t my mum. I was like it could’ve been anything! Even someone’s lipstick ( my LO has sensitive skin) but he just kept on insisting it wasn’t his mum even though I never mentioned his mum. I find it so funny because his mum treated me and him like absolute shit,prayed that he dies and burns in hell, made my pregnancy/ postpartum hell and also made horrible comments about our child, literally wished that we get divorced and abused him since he was a kid but somehow she’s sooo in his head that he will go on defence mode even when she’s not even mentioned. It’s all so weird to me honestly 😂😂
Sounds like he’s got Stockholm syndrome with partial “incestous attachment”. Although he wasn’t physically kidnapped or held hostage by his mother he was never mentally free constantly seeked unspoken approval and though he’s most likely never been vocal about it the mere thought of one day having acceptance subconsciously lives rent free in his head. If he can go to defense mode straight away like that he lives to please his mom no matter who he has to go against sadly