Dad not being in the delivery room

He has made this pregnancy so stressful emotionally, physically and mentally. This baby isn’t his ( it is tho lol) he doesn’t make it easier with our 2 year old daughter I have to do everything. Granted he works and I stay home since I lost my job in December. But once he’s home he just doesn’t help. Everytime he gets mad he says the most disgusting disrespectful things while he’s out doing him. I have no friends or family here (family moved away I decided to move with his family so he can be with his daughter) he’s just making it so easy for my decision of him not being in the delivery room. He’s been cheating since my first pregnancy. I just rather not deal with the stress of it. I’m so mentally checked out with everything he does. I did want an abortion but I knew I would regret it. Just preparing myself to be a single mother of 2
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I didn’t have my child’s father in the delivery room. He made my pregnancy a living hell til I move to a new apartment 5 months pregnant. He didn’t help financially, physically or emotionally. So I completely understand.

The father of my child is not going to be in the delivery room. He also cheated and just made half of my pregnancy hell so it’s okay and it’s your room not his. You don’t need any stress or emotional discomfort while giving birth.

@Gabby I just don’t get it. Why men make it harder when it’s already hard enough being pregnant. The shit is crazy. He was in the delivery room last time…didn’t once comfort me or nothing. I’m grateful for my kids but he can go fr

@Jordan I’m sorry mama 😞 and yea I think that’s the best choice. Don’t even want him at the baby shower (if I do decide to do one) men are just selfish frrr

I let him be at the shower since there wasn’t any alcohol involved but it’s okay i learned from this. Just put you and your baby first when it comes to the emotional and mental wellbeing Lovebug

That’s insane. Men are so irritating: I am so sorry you’re going through this 🥺. I really feel for you.

My sons dad made my pregnancy a nightmare, i told him that he wasn’t going to be in the room because he would have just stressed me out!

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