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Need some advice about my 1st born father
My 1st born is gonna be 5 this month and I just enrolled him in T-ball, well I let his dad know the coach name and when his meets will be ok cool, he comes gets him today and ask for the coach number I say ok I’ll text it you when I get to my phone, I was in the middle of cooking and dealing with my 8 month,it’s Ramadan and I’ve been fasting all day so I’m hungry and exhausted, well fast forward to an hour his father messages me and tells me I need to pick up our son at Quick trip instead of him dropping him like he’s been doing for the past 2 years now all because I didn’t message him fast enough about a coach number our son first meet is on the 22nd, at this point I just feel like he’s always trying to use our son to get to me when he doesn’t get his way last time he told me he was gonna call CPS on me because I didn’t respond to text about if our son needed socks on time, I’m a single mom and work 12hr shifts at the hospital sometimes doing overtime just to make ends meets, our 5 year old hates going over and it’s always complaining about stomach aches when he finds out he’s going with his dad or gets super upset
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@Macdalia he would just take him back to his house
Which should be fine if he was supposed to have him and spend time with him anyway, no?
@Macdalia Not if he’s supposed to bring back at the said time or it’s the day for him to come back
Ahh I didn’t see that part in the post. Well ultimately I hope it worked out and something can be hashed where he can’t just pull your string like that all the time
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I’m sorry mama. He can’t force you to come get him. He can’t leave him at the store so ultimately he’d have to come back for drop off regardless. Also I’d tell him to call next time he threatens it. You shouldn’t have to live in limbo and if you didn’t reply he could’ve gotten the socks just to be safe. If something is time sensitive - you call.