Bananas and veggie straws!! Just the fact that you're making your post like this screams you're being abused, this is not normal. Absolutely run. This is not love and your beautiful baby doesn't deserve to grow up thinking that it is
PB&J . . . . . Sounds like an abusive situation. If you are posting this then you are probably not feeling safe. So do you feel like this is a situation you want to raise a child in? You have to make sure you and your baby are safe. Good luck momma. You can do this!
My kids both love Mac & cheese! If you have to wonder if the relationship is abusive, it is. I’m sure you are incredible. Don’t listen to a negative thing he says about you! I agree with Melissa, he’s gaslighting you.
Blueberries and avocados . . . Sounds like he is gas lighting you and that is abusive. If he is not willing to have an adult conversation about how he is making you feel, then you should look deeper into what you want from the relationship and if you are anywhere near getting those things. Reflect and figure out what to do next for yourself and your baby.