Would you allow your child to go to an aggressive kids birthday party?
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I might. I'm sure a lot of parents would say no. I'm sure that boy probably will not have many friends or people who would attend his birthday. I feel bad for him. Something more is going on that we don't fully kno or understand that is making him act out and he's the one who suffers I think if my son wanted to go I would let my him go but watch them very closely. I probably would go off with them when they go to play ect ect ect. Staying close enough to intervene on short notice. Maybe he's different outside of school maybe he's the same but if it doesn't look good we'll just drop off a gift and leave early and not do it again.
My son has autism so it would be very hypocritical for me to say no. This post is just sad in general. The school is obviously not the right environment and hes struggling.
I would say no. I don't want my child influenced into behaving badly. Plus what if that child did something to mine? Not worth it in my opinion. I'd just make other plans so we'd be busy that day anyway my child wouldn't feel sorry that she missed out.
I would say, yes, if you’re going to be there too. No, if it’s a drop off. A child’s aggression is a learned behavior. Whether from what they are allowed to watch as entertainment or bc they are witnessing it at home. It could also be a child’s way of asking for help.
Is your son close to this child, are they friends? If not, that’s good enough reason to skip.
I think it depends how your child reacts too it,also how many other kids and adults will be there, what is the setting going to be and if you feel comfortable than I would go and wacth him. If he wants to leave than you can leave but you can at least try you know. If you choose not to go than thats valid.
Knowing my son, I'd be saying no too. My son is 6 and is very reactive. If someone does something to him, he's going to react and it's not always in the best way. So no. He would not be going.