TMI put them up the other end. That’s what my ivf consultant told me
I’ve started putting it up my ‘back passage’ I found I was having the same issue with leakage and also I was getting brown spotting. It’s honestly soooo much easier, no leakage at all and no need to lay down for ages afterwards. I spoke to the nurse and she said it works the same vaginally or rectally. I would 100% recommend.
Pads are inevitable 🤷🏼♀️