Hopefully, they have some vegan friendly options. I'd still send him with a cake just in case so he doesn't miss out and just tell the nursery that's what you're going to do just in case there is nothing there for him to eat :)
Tbh it's a treat. I don't see the harm in a one off cake for him to enjoy! I'm making a cake for my little girls birthday sugar and all and really don't see the issue with her being about to try some new things. I was going to try make it with coconut milk instead of cows milk like I usually do
Thanks guys. I dont see the harm in a little sugar treat now and again, and it literally is a mini cake, i just want him to be involved
I’d just talk to the nursery and see if they’re ok with it
Could you opt for some mini banana muffins or similar so he doesn't miss out?