Who does pickups and sales on marketplace?

My husband always sends me to pickup marketplace items. I’m a tiny woman and he’s a very muscular man. He claims that he doesn’t want to make anyone uncomfortable by going to meet them. he waits in the car and sends me and every single time I’m met by a grown man despite having communicated with a woman. It makes me soo uncomfortable I’ve explained to him that it’s not uncommon for husbands to do the pickup especially because I have the baby in the car. But he refuses. I had one pickup where I needed to enter the home to move an item. And he didn’t seem to care. I explained to the woman that my husband was in the car and she was appalled as to why he would send me in to a strangers house. She went as far as to say her husband would never do that.

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He’s being a bitch ass. He needs to go to the door not send you. Terrible!

So he’d rather you feel uncomfortable than a random stranger? Odd.

Ironically I’d prefer a woman to pick up and item and most of the time it’s mums selling to other mums. I have asked my oh to pick up at item but that’s because it’s on the way home from work and his car is bigger but usually I do it.

Even when meeting a woman my nan insist on being there

If I do door pickup with another mom I go myself. If it’s a man or I have to meet face to face I send my husband, father or brothers and I give the person I’m buying from a description of them so they aren’t surprised/scared. I always ask who will be meeting me and go from there.

If I bought it, I pick it up

I send me dad 😂😂

I buy and I send my husband or together only because the stuff are heavy

My man ALWAYS does it. Even if it’s a product for me. Hes my advocate which is so sweet cause I have anxiety 🥹 Don’t help your partner anymore make him do it himself or you’re not going. Cause that’s a hell no. He should give a damn about your safety.

If he buys something then he goes, if I buy something then I go 😂 my products are usually women’s products, so it’s 100% that I’ll be meeting a woman, or sometimes I tell them to leave it there somewhere inconspicuous so I do contactless pickup. His shit is his shit, he takes care of that I don’t have anything to do w that 💁🏻‍♀️ and vice versa. I drive though so I pick my stuff up myself. And she’s absolutely right. My husband would never send me in and carry out a huge piece of furniture by myself. Once we picked up a baby booster seat when he needed a 4-8yr old booster she had twins she had 2 and I bought both (for both cars) I stayed in the car that time even though yes I could carry it myself, he went in (as he should)

I always buy stuff on marketplace and pick it up myself 🤷‍♀️ If I told my husband I was uncomfortable he’d 100% do the pickup, but we live in rural Ontario so basically everyone I’ve ever bought from happens to have mutual friends with me so that might be part of the reason I’ve never felt uncomfortable.

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