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@Tiffany I have no friends who live near me. All in other states 🤦🏼♀️ and all my family live in other states.
are you located in florida?
For the beach go in the arvo I go around 3-4pm and by that time the UV index has gone way down and I usually don’t bring shade…I like to watch the sunset and go once a week in the sunmer but I leave around 3. It’s sunny, yeah, but not enough to burn and enough for my VITD for the day.
Your husband sounds like a selfish dick. Is his shitty attitude indicative to the rest of your relationship too? Imagine being so brazy about showing how little you care or give a fuck to someone you allegedly love! 🥴 I hope you keep that same energy and return it when it comes to his birthday too!
@Kayla no. West coast
@Neena yeah his birthday was earlier this year already. Made him a cake and got him gifts 🤷🏼♀️
Sounds like he hates planning parties and is afraid to fail. Honestly better that he be honest and tell you rather than you be disappointed day of. Maybe you can make it easier on him—tell him to surprise you with just a restaurant reservation somewhere, and that’s all he needs to do. I know my husband doesn’t like planning anything and the thought of it gives him anxiety, so sometimes I narrow things down a bit for him.
do something without him
@Kalika I legit told him last month like 5 thingsthat I would like to do and to pick and just surprise me, it was the beach, zoo, aquarium, few other things I just didn’t want to have to plan and buy the tickets if needed I always do it I just wanted a surprise 🫣😞
If youve already given him suggestions and he still cant do one of those...id Have him stay home with baby and take yourself out for a spa day or go get yourself a meal someplace you have been eyeing, bring a book, and enjoy yourself.
That’s literally a man who doesn’t care about you at all. My husband was in major pain the weekend of my birthday in 2023 & he still took me to my favorite comedy show, got me my favorite fast food & took me to a hotel where we stayed the night & had a hot bubble bath in a whirlpool tub. They say if he wanted to, he would & I fully believe that. Get rid of the whole spouse. Find a way to celebrate your birthday on your own. He’s your “childcare” & a 1.5 year old should be easy to take care of for a few hours in your absence.
@Katie you would think…. He couldn’t even do it for 20m while I finished making my dinner tonight. Baby doesn’t want anything to do with him lately and will just cry for me. I think I’ll grab food and do a picnic with the kiddo somewhere near by. Long as it doesn’t rain!! Maybe a new park I would love a hot tub
I really hate this for you! What is stopping him from being able to take care of them? And that sounds like a nice birthday, but I really hope your next one, you get time to spoil yourself! I really do.
@Katie nothing he’s just over living I guess . I overheard him mumbling to himself today that our 1 year old was ruining his life
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I hate that. He chose to be a dad. If he feels that way truly, then he can go live freely & let you be the full guardian of the kiddo.
Sounds like an assh*le, he could have asked for ideas of what you wanted to do, not straight out said he wasn't planning anything. I wouldn't spend the day with him, if can't be bothered to put a little effort in, he doesn't deserve your time
Do something with someone else.. screw him. Go out to eat with your baby and a friend or something