Have you tried a in home daycare?
you should try to ask in a fb moms group! many sahms look to make a few bucks and will watch your babies alongside theirs...
My husband just switched his shift to swing shift weekends so that we can both continue to work. It starts in April and is going to really suck but it's better than loosing so much a month
My husband switched jobs to a better paying one that also had better insurance when I became a stay at home mom.
I think it depends on how much your husband makes alone. We were comfortable with me becoming a sahm bc my husband made enough to support our family of 4. Daycare is expensive, and I would basically be working to cover daycare. It just didn't make sense.