Do u guys think she really “forgot”?

So I had a friend reach out about planning our birthdays together , we agreed Vegas and getting an Airbnb since our birthdays are a day apart . So tell me why a few days later I get a text that says “we have a small problem” and basically stating that I was uninvited to the trip because she forgot that the same group she went to Vegas with earlier in the year had already made plans for her birthday to go to Vegas and they didn’t want anyone new joining along because they didn’t have any drama on the trip last time they wanted to keep it that way . Mind you I’ve never met these friends of hers before . Lol idk I don’t understand why she planned a trip with me in the first place for OUR birthday then uninvite me to my own trip lol .
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Are you the type to start any drama anyway? Because it sounds like that’s her reasoning behind it,🙄 I think that you need to lose her as a “friend” somebody like that is not your friend, if she wanted you there she could’ve easily made it work, she might be jealous of you.

She could of. When leaving trips people often say when should do it again. If they follow through is a different thing.

Mmm This is a weird friendship. Im not sure I would count this as a friend.

I think she forgot it's as simple as that .. just plan something else with someone else

Doesn’t sound like a real friend to me. She didn’t 4get she just decided to wait till the last min to tell u. This is y I have no friends bc “true friends” don’t exist. Drop her bc she’s garbage let her pal down with her Vegas buddies & get u someone that’s worthy of ur time.

@Ariyana no ! That’s why I’m confused because I’m like why would I be the one that’s excluded ? I’m the last person to be drama especially on day /weekend such as my birthday. I’m dying for a fun time , I don’t get out at all being with my kids full time .

Those aren’t your true friends.

@🌻🌸🌺Jen🌺🌸🌻 which is why I made the post in the first place , I’ve had bad experiences with females in the past , jealousy , weird behavior.. so I feel like I always have to question people’s intentions.

@Claudette ❤️ it’s a blessing in disguise , and honestly I’m kinda glad , it’s my golden birthday and my 30th this year I wasn’t looking forward to sharing that lowkey . So it gives me an opportunity to plan something else .

Don’t forget to post how much fun you are having ❤️❤️hope you have a great birthday😛🎂

lol, I’d cut that loose. Game over

The ‘no fights no arguments’ implies you may bring drama to a group most likely from what she’s told that group to avoid you coming. They may have not even said that at all & she’s making it all up 🤷🏻‍♀️ From my experience, when someone doesn’t value a friendship anymore they make up such ridiculous excuses & pin in on others just to make themselves feel better. You’re better off without her, she isn’t a real friend & you deserve better 🫶🏻

She didn’t want to to come at all instead of just being forwarded..

For me it’s fact she assumes and her friends assume if you were to come automatically there would be drama and they don’t even know you so realistically what has this “friend” been saying to them about you for them to assume that.. weird

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