Feeling harassed and intimidated.
My ex partner is demanding a day with our daughter this week, a day that he never normally has. I’ve tried to make sure it happens but because it’s not going to be for the exact time he wants, he’s kicking off. He’s told me that if I’m not “kind to him” then he won’t be kind to me. He’s also saying he’s going to come to my work place and that he wants to collect our daughter from there. I don’t think he knows where I work as I’ve changed jobs since we have separated but I wouldn’t put it past him putting a tracker on the joint car that we both still have access to.
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I had to take her to him on my lunch break. But he’s now taken the car away from me because it wasn’t what he wanted.
I don’t know your situation, but from an objective standpoint this is control that he won’t let go unless you are proactive. Many of us are in similar situations and it looks different in each of our lives. Be honest with yourself about what you can do to keep yourself and your child safe and to get up from underneath him.
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How did this work out? I know you posted a while ago.