What do yall think about this

Bf owes mr $500 yes 500 now when he ask me for 5,10,20 for food when he’s working I don’t ask for it back EVER because he’s using it to eat now the $500 he owes me is over a month period he used that go gamble (play the casino games online) now with that I don’t support it’s not a need it’s a want he spent his whole check this past week playing the Casino so he was able to give me my money now last night he say since u won $400 can u hold me down on $40 that I don’t have to pay back my respond was for what he’s like I wanna play a little so I said no he got mad turned over just went to bed his morning he if I can grab him a vape sure np whatever then he asked for the 40 again to play we get home he say can u send me 40 I said we didn’t stop so I can add money to my card his response was why didn’t u remind me before we got out the car I said cause I reminded you 5 times already he got mad it pisses me off cause he makes it seem as I don’t hold him down but when he ask for money for food or things needed deodorant etc I always get him what he needs or send him the money for it as we are in a relationship so I believe those things should be if one of us need and the other don’t have the funds for it we help each other out but am I wrong for having him pay the funds back for playing the Casino n he’s also mad because when he ask for 20 for gas’s or what ever I don’t send it to him until he ready to us it for that cause if I send it early he uses it to play so he says now u don’t trust me (you’ve shown me that I can’t trust u with the money )

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He needs to give you back your money. It’s not your job to keep funding his habits. Does he not have a job??? Guys like this give me the ick. You’re nice, because alot of women wouldn’t keep putting up with this. He better get it together.

Girl he needs to go to some meetings for gambling if it becomes a crazy problem

@Sarah yes he has a job n just spent the whole check “trying to win more”

Its sounding like a gambling problem and he should probably seek some help. Chasing the win to the stage of a blowing a full pay check and having to borrow money for food is really bad 😬 I've been the same with ex partners ill lend money for some things and never expect it back, I get you you get me sometimes kind of thing. But if it's a vice I don't support (usually smoking in my cases) that has to be paid back and is non negotiable. It's not a necessity. If I were you I'd be really trying to put my foot down before it gets worse

He seems like a child, he has a gabbling addiction - DO NOT give this man anymore money unless you never want to see your money again!

My husband likes to build fire arms, right? (Always safely has all his licenses, gun room is locked, safes inside it are locked blah blah, don’t come for me) When I got pregnant, I told him I rather he cut back on his hobby spending. Specially if I’m not longer working, know what he did? Started working on the side so he could spend HIS EARNED money, on what he wanted. I’m perfectly fine with that, he’s working extra so he can do what he wants on top of completely supporting our child and I. Bills are paid, groceries are bought, toys, clothes. Whatever I say we need. Before he spends said money on “frivolous things” He should not be asking for your earned money, for a gambling habit, or for even just for fun. And definitely should not be spending normal paychecks on it if he has to ask you for money for providing things for himself. Nope. I’ve dated the deadbeat, sorry. But this sounds like him all over again. Except his “vice” was asking me for money to buy his drinks aftworkin

Girl he needs to start doing more for himself. U unfortunately r enabling his bad habits he needs help

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