Lack of effort from partner for mothers day

I have a 2 year old, currently pregnant with my second and my partner knows how I like to make an effort on special days like birthdays and Father’s Day etc, he’s worked this week and was meant to go Mother’s Day shopping for me and his mum this afternoon so I was like at least he’s out time aside to do it when he’s free etc and has decided to stay in the pub instead , I’m so so pissed off and upset with his lack of effort knowing it is a nice thing to do for me , I’m now alone at home with my baby in bed , not getting a response from him when I’m asking what time is he home so I can sort tea, and feel like crying knowing I’ll not even have a card to wake up to tomorrow never mind a lie in I was promised Cus no doubt he will be hungover ☹️☹️ just posting because I feel a little lonely
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Im hoping he's at least been out midweek to get you something and you'll be pleasantly surprised tomorrow morning. That doesn't however excuse him spending today in the pub and ignoring you. I hope it's a better outcome tomorrow than you are expecting. I asked my hubby what the plan was for tomorrow and he said I foiled the plans he'd had in his head so his suggestions were visiting his gran and his mum! Not my idea of a special Mother's day for me! We've booked soft play for the morning to at least spend some time as a family first!

He told me all week he won’t have chance to go Asda until Saturday afternoon so unfortunately i know there isn’t anything for me for the morning and he’s still out. 🫠 I’m so upset that he had no desire to try and make me feel special on Mother’s Day and I’ll just be dealing with his hangover now but apparently I’m not being fair Cus he should be allowed to go the pub 🫣

I hope you have a lovely time at softplay ❤️

Aww thats sucks big time! It's not nice if you go out of your way to make his days extra special, the least he could do is repay the favour! I'm sorry he has treated you this way! I'd be doing nothing for him tomorrow.

Happy Mother's Day!

Unfortunately mine always makes little to no effort knowing that I love celebrating special days. Last year I decided I wouldn’t buy his a Father’s Day or birthday gift and he was so shocked by that. Definitely wasn’t like this during our dating stage

Happy Mother’s Day either way. If you’re up for it, go out tomorrow and celebrate yourself, whether it’s taking yourself out for brunch or to watch a lunchtime movie in the cinema

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