Please tell me I’m not the TOXIC one….

I don’t let mine go to any nor will I ever and if that makes me insecure or boring oh welllll, I guess I’ll be boring and insecure til I d!e 😭🤣

Not toxic, it's not something I like the idea of my partner going to either. Facts are that shady shit goes on there on both ends. My ex went once got black out drunk, somehow dropped a grand in the VIP room...wth happened in there I never found out. He was shady to me anyway... The person I am with now has never gone to one while we are together, but i also trust him so much like he would never lie to me. If he ever did go for some reason like a bachelor party or something I would still trust him but I would also still not like it lol

Personally, I couldn't care less, lol, but I always expect the same respect to me if I wanted to go to something like that. I don't ever see my husband ever wanting to just go. But if it was for like a bachelor party or something like that, he'd ask me if it was okay, and I'd say yes. Those ladies at the club don't want our men. They are just trying to make a living. Hell, I'd go with him if he let me 🤣 but that's just how I am and what I'm comfortable with. BUT, if you are not comfortable with them, your husband should respect your feelings, and his family should as well...its also weird that his family asks all the time and it gives me the ick if he doesn't ask them to stop because you're uncomfortable. You're not toxic for not wanting to be outside of your comfort zone and never forget that. It doesn't make people insecure for not liking it. You're allowed to have boundaries.

@🪷Faith🪷 🤣😂🤣 hard facts, them girls don't want our men, they are just trying to get paid.

I'm on the same page as @🪷Faith🪷 with this one. My husband isn't one to do it on a regular basis, heck I don't think he has actually been to one our entire time of being together (12 years). He has mentioned wanting to take me to one though we just never did before the kid 😂 Oh well.

I can't imagine trying to control my husband going to a strip club because if I had to worry about it at all, he's not the right man for me. He only ever goes for bachelor parties - so if it were more than that/super frequent, I'd have a reason to be concerned, and like I said - he wouldn't be my ideal partner and we wouldn't be together. I always tell him don't do anything you wouldn't want me to do, and we're solid!

@Ki mine doesn’t go bc he wouldn’t want me going , when i say i won’t let mine I rlly should’ve stated I’ve never had to worry about it bc it’s never came up and bc he wouldn’t want me to do it I know he wouldn’t out of respect! Which is what matters most -respect! 💕

I’m going with him