Bad first Mother’s Day

I feel really stupid being upset over an arbitrary day but you only get one first. All I asked from my fiance was a card, and some flowers, and a lay in. Long story short, I was the one who got up with him and got him dressed into a baby grows I got him for today and it just made me feel silly. He then took the baby downstairs to feed him and they both then fell asleep for two hours. I didn’t even get my card until 1. He said to me once waking up “I thought I was giving you what you wanted, free time.” I don’t know what I expected from today but I wanted some sort of effort from him. Maybe just make me a cup of tea? It doesn’t come naturally to him, doing things like that though so I again feel sill for being upset he didn’t do anything special. He doesn’t understand why I’m upset, and said on Father’s Day he doesn’t want anything just some free time to do what he wants 🤷🏻 I don’t really know how to get out of this funk/teary feeling when the day is just nothing like I expected, even though I knew I shouldn’t have expected anything. I hope you other mummies are having an absolutely lovely day ✨