The best advice I can give with seeing it & being around people that have dealt with it is to feel it. Allow yourself to grieve, give yourself time to process & find out who you are again. You change when married, a lot. You aren’t the same person & even if it’s with someone you love you still aren’t the same person. You change and morphe yourself & sacrifice a lot. Get therapy, I recommend that especially because you now have trauma & you need to work through that. & you are going to think you never want to be with anyone ever again & that’s okay . Sit with it but don’t allow yourself to feel as if you aren’t worthy to be with someone, eventually that knows your worth & now is a great time to rediscover your worth.
Well said @Larayne 100% agree
Thank you girl @Nai
I can’t even imagine how you feel, my best advice is it to trust your journey , everything happens for a reason , use this time to elevate , do NOT show him that this situation is breaking you , just continue to keep your chin up and continue being beautiful.
Are you open to therapy?