1st Mother’s Day Rant
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It’s not my first Mother’s Day but it was same as last year, so my partner thinks that he don’t have to celebrate it because our son is too small, and he won’t be doing presents from him. When he will be old enough I will have a mother day. I accepted this last year but this year I made a massive argument and at the end I get a card and flowers. But the day is ruined and I feel like I mean nothing to him.
Could it be that he possibly had made secret plans for you and you were going to spend time with your mom? They can't read our mind so the best thing we can do is calmly communicate what we are thinking and feeling and what would be nice to do on such occassions.
It really pisses me off that some people can’t make one day special for you, it gives narcissistic vibes. Happens alot with birthdays too. My daughters dad couldn’t even text me happy Mother’s Day let alone get me anything lol, thankfully my boyfriend is supportive and he brought me flowers and a card. Give the same energy to him when it’s Father’s Day!
Yep mine ended up being hungover with a migraine and I get he can’t help a migraine but I then spent time out of my day “playing nurse” (and not the sexy kind 🤣) because he couldn’t look after himself 🙃🙃🙃 I also only got something because my mum made an effort to on behalf of my little boy… like you though I did spend most of my day with my mum and my boy but still was a bit shit if I’m honest … (Sorry not much help… I’ve not confronted mine tbh!!)