Pregnant but not wanting to tell anybody!!

Hey everyone, I just found out I was pregnant with my third baby. My fiancé and I are very happy. This baby was a complete surprise.BUT I come from a family that is very complicated and disrespectful of everything I do (I am the so called black sheep) my fiancé, and I have been talking about keeping this pregnancy a complete secret. My last pregnancy was completely ruined by my family.. they showed up to the hospital unannounced and the day I got home from the hospital made six different reports to CPS saying I cannot take care of my kids. I ended up getting really bad PPD and my fiancé is slightly terrified since then. am I in the wrong for keeping my pregnancy a secret for my family?

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Falsely reporting you to CPS could be a reason to never talk to them again.

My fiancée’s family situation is similar to yours and I would say you have every reason to keep this pregnancy a secret. It’s a privilege to be in yours, your family’s, and your baby’s lives and if they can’t respect or see that then they don’t deserve access

I agree if they lied just to get your kids taken away is wrong sometimes cutting people out of your life ...Especially toxic family you wouldn't regret ❤️ I did and have noticed the difference wish you luck and congrats to your pregnancy

@Csilla that’s one of the things I mean if you came from a messed up family who convinced you to have abortions called your kids abominations and told you you’re kids were a missed opportunity for cradle death I think you may be ready to hide them as well