in In a relationship but basically doing on your own.

I'm devastated 😔🥺

I didn't know I would ever feel this way, but I hope our children NEVER EVER meet a man like their father. He is a narcissistic drama king who can't be good for anyone. He can't come out of himself at all. All he thinks about is sex and a vacation. With the family that he despises. I'm so sad that I gave him children, but I wouldn't trade my babies for anything. He says "fuck you all" and then claims that he is the one that gets no respect. I work only the weekends and I'm nervous to leave my kids with him for 8 hours by himself. It's like he can't think of anyone but himself and I can't deal with it. He is upset because I don't have sex with him every damn day, but with the way he treats this family, how am I supposed to get in the mood when he yells at our kids like they are grown men and scares them into submission? I can't afford a nanny right now because I fractured my ankle, but I'm STILL working to make such he gets that "vacay" he can't leave without. I'm so lost. 😞

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Hey Hun, I know it's easier said than done but by the sounds of it you and the kids are not happy, why not leave? Do you have anyone to help you leave? Unfortunately a man like that will never change and all he will do is drag you and the kids down. I hope you find the strength to leave him and live a happier life. You deserve so much better xx

@Katy we have been together for 10 years. I thought If I loved him with all of my heart that things would work out. I do all I can for this family and the kids love him. Even when he makes them nervous. I don't want them to blame me for giving up. I'm so confused.

Never blame yourself! You have tried and put in your all.. it's not you giving up, it's you realizing that you deserve better! The kids will love him no matter what, but that also means they will love him if you are together or not. You can't stay just for the kids as it's not healthy!! X

I wish I could say I don't love him, but I do. He is the only man I have ever loved. I would just be alone and not try ever again

Me and my sister loved our dad but we still begged our mum to kick him out because he was so horrible to us... No matter how bad he is they'll always love him like we did, but that doesn't mean he is healthy to have around for anybody. Keeping someone around that kids love but are hurt by only hurts them more, I'm sorry to say.

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