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Why are men so childish!!

I got with my best friends brother after a hard time! I’m 31 hes 22.. he was so mature at first and very helpful. I already had children from a previous relationship. I got pregnant quickly and we had our twins.. at first I was so in love and so was he. We were so happy! Now fast forward to 18 months into our relationship and I know I love him but unsure if I’m still in love with him.. he’s great if I ask for help and we’ve just came back off the best family holiday but the past few days I’m so unsure what I want anymore! He sits and plays Roblox all night. I feel this is so childish but him and his brother and sister play it all night! Even if I fall asleep he’ll still play it. I just sit and watch tele.. he even moans some nights that he doesn’t wanna play but feels like he has to. We had a disagreement earlier and he went to his sisters house. When I’ve gone to pick him up after picking the kids up from school he was moaning he didn’t want to play. So I said you annoy me. You windge and moan to me but not to them.. he got back out the car and stormed off. So I drove away and left him. I don’t know where he is and he doesn’t have a phone. It’s not the first time he’s done or said something then when they’ve said something he just stands there and agrees but tells me a whole different story or moans to me. Tbh we don’t do anything anymore not even a kiss or cuddle. Our relationship has turned into what feels like a friendship with obviously some love.. Sorry for the rant I just don’t know what to say or do anymore! 😭

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Oh my goodness! I'm sorry. I'd be annoyed as well. I think sitting down and having an honest conversation on how you feel, what you want, and where he stands as well would be very important. He needs to establish boundaries. Complaining to you isn't going to change anything for him.

@Rykki I think I need to but he doesn’t always listens or says he will stand up for himself and then doesn’t. It’s a difficult one x

He maybr an adult but he's a young adult. Still growing up to-do and can be expected from someone that is 22. Being 22 for me was kinda an awkward time. Lile.i know I am adult but didn't quite feel it 100%, I still felt lile I was teen in many ways and had a hard time speaking up for myself (and still do at times). He's acting out lile a teen and needs to understand that he's a father and needs to really grow up ro be there for is family. Gaming is okay, my husband still games late when he doesn't have work the next day and.turns the game off at 10 during weeks he works. But he doesn't start gamimg till LOs are off to bed or getting ready for bed.