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Am I wrong that I feel like I shouldn’t have to ask if I want to go somewhere once my son’s father/bf is home. When I do ask ahead of time just so I don’t spring it on him it’s already like he has an attitude. The crazy part is I’m never gone for hours and it’s always something beneficial for the household not even just for me.
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He’ll just say something about barely getting sleep last night and just getting home from work. I think it’s just laziness of not wanting to watch our son for an hour 🙃
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For me personally I think both partners should let each other know when they are planning to go somewhere. I wouldn’t say “ask” but check in if it works for both, seems reasonable to me.
I have the same experience. I feel like it is laziness and sometimes a little jealousy of getting out. He has the same freedoms and still complains and has an attitude. Not to mention I do majority of everything! For me I need to figure out if I want to continue to deal with this.
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Sounds controlling or like he doesn't want to be alone with the kid or kids. Not healthy either especially if it's not something bad or like you said you are not even gone that long. Have you tried asking him straight out why he has this attitude problem?