Men suck.

Wow that’s disgusting but at least he’s being honest and not wanting to have something to do with these men. I just know my bd talks the same way but ‘boys will be boys’ 😑

It’s crazy the amount of cheating I hear about all the time, doesn’t matter how long y’all been together or how many kids y’all have, people are ruthless.

I've given up on finding a new man bc all the guys my age are gross and creepy, I tried going on tinder when my son was 1 month old and all the guys were obsessed with the fact I was breastfeeding 🤢🤢🤢

I trust my husband when it comes to being respectful of women- especially me. He acknowledges the value of women and what we are capable of as humans. Even before we were romantically involved I personally heard him speak- respectfully- to others about their attitudes towards women. I have also personally witnessed him defend women who were complete strangers- again respectfully but firmly. Also, I know he discusses more interesting and sophisticated topics with his circle of friends. I say this because good men deserve to be acknowledged and to maybe give others hope if they haven’t experienced this type of man themselves. Sounds like a positive thing your husband is becoming mindful of his mindset and the company he keeps. People can grow and evolve.

yeah unfortunately it does happen I tell you from experience cause yeah …

@V actually love that for you! 🥰 I however have never met a man that is truly respectful & therefore can see myself being single for a very long time. My focus is on my little ones anyway which is just as well since all the men I've been with have been disappointing sneaky liars 🙃

I have trust issues but when I read this I’m sorry I just thought he’s probably just saying that so you think he’s being good

@ellie thanks! They are out there, there is hope for the human race haha It’s unfortunate that’s your experience. Sounds like you have your priorities straight though and your little ones are blessed to have a mother who knows her worth and holds her boundaries.

Honestly the men who slide into my dms are either married or in relationships and I just think you’re poor wife 😢 I’ve even had so called friends of my ex message me too

It’s disgusting that Some men are like that & think like that but that is not all men. I thank God for the husband that I have! ❤️

@V awwww thank you 🥰

all men will cheat given the opportunity and when. men aren’t emotionally attached like us

@Swai-Anne this!!!!

@Sam this, they follow you.. or glance at you I just ignore them and then their woman holds them close like girl I don’t want him 😂 wth I’m just here to eat/shop.

Being a army Vet i can tell you this is very true. I would say especially the guys that give lots of attention just to say that they gave it to you so they can go to do their "own thing".

I know my husband would never betray me but he's ex military and he's seen it all.

@Marie I know plenty of honest, loyal men that wouldn't 🤷 not ALL MEN cheat. You sound bitter.

@Tiffany i’m not bitter it’s true. any circumstance can change even stephen hawking cheated

@Marie there are still men who don't. I'll act like you then - ALL women chest too!

@Tiffany I think that anyone is capable of cheating man or woman i’m not just saying men

@Marie and I'm saying, not ALL men would cheat. Stop being so misanderous.

@Tiffany mam I’m not going to go back and forth with you this is simply my opinion.

You can’t say it’s your opinion when you’re saying it like a fact. @Marie when you say ALL men cheat you’re saying that about MY husband too, which is not cool. Also, when you have this attitude that is exactly what you’ll attract. Start believing there are good men out there and you’ll be more likely to find one.

Hey ladies. Majority of men cheat given the opportunity. The point of this post is that I’ve noticed even the “good ones” will and they know how to wear a mask and pretend to be the perfect husband. Do genuine good men exist? Absolutely. Just know they are a unicorn lol. It’s rare. You would surprised how many you think are loyal, but aren’t. If you have a good one, consider yourself blessed.

@V first of all why are you taking it personally. I simply believe that any one can cheat based on circumstance and situations which can change at any time .. humans are very complex. i didn’t say it was a fact I said it was my opinion something can be factual to me and not you and we each are entitled to our own opinions. this is just mine. you’re not going to sway me it doesn’t matter your status, how wealthy you are, how attractive you are, talented. if you get cheated on it has nothing to do with YOU it has issues rooted in the one who cheated plain and simple 🤷🏻‍♀️. however I’m not saying your man is cheating or will cheat on you but that if placed in a scenario and certain circumstances it makes cheating more likely which is why we have shows like temptation island for example to show case that

I can’t possibly take it personally, I don’t know you personally. In my mind we’re having a light hearted internet debate. @Marie Yes, we are all humans but when you say “All men will cheat given the opportunity” you’re saying ALL men will cheat. I disagree. As for your example of Temptation Island- that’s a reality SHOW not actually reality. Only certain types of people would agree to be on the show in the first place so the immediate bias is undeniable. Of course cheating has nothing to do with who is being cheated on and everything to do with the cheater, no debate there. I mean Beyoncé’s Lemonade 😅

@V okay because when you brought up your man I thought you were implying I was saying something about your life. debates are meant solely to voice your opinion not take anything personally. If you don’t think cheating is situational with a mixture of a person’s morals and emotional state then how come there is a ideology of attraction based on proximity aka co worker romances

I brought up my husband as an example of how I formed my opinion. I do think cheating can be situational but not ALL men will cheat, regardless of the situation they are in.