Noisy Neighbor Hellllp 😭

I would call the office. Some people can be confrontational, I wouldn’t put myself in that predicament.

Unfortunately when it's shared walls then it becomes a hard gamble to play because you never know how far the other person can go to piss you off. The office made a mistake telling her tho but perhaps get more people to complain too?? What a disgusting neighbour. So sorry.

As someone who lives in a loft I totally get it and it can be very frustrating. At least for me personally I knocked on either side of me asking politely to not smoke indoors when I would constantly smell cigarettes and especially when my kids were home and they would complain about it. I politely asked and haven’t had any issues since, sometimes I’ll smell weed from one of my neighbors but if it’s just me home i don’t mind as much and open my door to air it out. Your situation would definitely piss me off and I’d go off on her after asking her to chill the f out. Otherwise it doesn’t matter if she cares or not so might as well keep complaining to the office because after so many warnings she can get her ass evicted and go bother someone else somewhere else and be a problem over there. Some people just have no sense of respect for others unfortunately, she’s divorced for a reason. I would make it known though personally to her that she needs to be respectful of others around…

And that she is disturbing your home life and peace. If she goes crazy about you saying something then go to the office and tell them they need to do something about it or move her elsewhere point blank. Good luck!

I would file a noise complaint with the police. I know in NYC anything like that would be a 311 complaint and dealt with quickly.

I would file noise complaint with police. Especially when it’s excessive and in quiet hours. There should be something in the lease regarding this and if they are called it can be marked on their lease as violation. I will say will still depend on the leasing office to follow up and enforce.

Thanks guys! I’m gonna talk to her when I get home- politely and see where that gets me- after that I’m Just gonna call the leasing office If it continues and then file a noise complaint with the cops- this is too damn much. Im exhausted 😫

Wishing you all the best and quiet nights soon!

Firstly, put ring cameras at your entrances. Just so you have video footage if she tries to confront you or just so you have proof of things going on. Yes I would file another complaint with the office, and then file a police report for a noise complaint at the prescient. Think hard but if you feel like it’s a cps matter, you can anonymously call them too. Drunk, doing drugs, her screaming at the kids, doesn’t sound like a healthy environment for a child.

I would call the cops every night until she stops. That’s beyond ridiculous and definitely illegal to blast music all night long in an apartment complex. Also I would consider calling CPS (anonymously). She sounds like a super unstable and unfit parent to her child.

Call the office but tell them you don’t want them telling her it’s you putting the complaint in for privacy reasons and to keep the peace.

Im having a similar issue but with my upstairs neighbor. I work over nights and a deputy sheriff and she plays music as loud as she possibly can during the day and the bass vibrates my house. Ive tried to knock on her door but she never answers it. She hardly ever leaves here house. I guess she works from home as im told by another neighbor. I live in condos so there really isnt anyone to report it too. Im not trying to make it a legal issue. People are just so inconsiderate.

I’m very confrontational so id literally just tell her I know everything and I mean everything. Just for the sake of thin walls can we please keep that in mind. I’d even go a far as to tell her not to feel embarrassed but you definitely wanted to be the first to let her know what you CAN hear.