Husband and dad hates eachother

Okay I definitely feel like I'm going to get a lot of hate on this situation. But I need advice🥲. Me and my husband are coming up on our 3rd anniversary. My husband is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He's an amazing man. But he has a criminal background. When he was 16 and the girl was 14 the girl offered to give him head, and being a 16 year old boy who would say no? She decided to wait till his 17th birthday to turn him in saying he forced her. Because in texas 17 is considered an adult. So now 5 years later, hes still on probation and etc.. 2 years ago me and my dad hit rock bottom he kicked me out for some chick, ended going to jail because of her etc.. When he got out of jail I made sure he knew about my husband's past. He was okay with it! He sat down with my husband's parents, my husband. But now he has a new wife, so now he's claiming to have never known anything about it. Ever since I found out I was pregnant with my first daughter he has been trying everything in his power to get me to leave him. We found out a couple of weeks ago that he tried calling CPS on us whole I was in the hospital delivering, then had the nerves to come see us at the hospital. I know that my dad is not a good person to have a around, but damn I'm a daddy's girl. So it really fucking sucks. I know a lot of people have different opinions on my husband. But my husband has never once proved to anyone that he's a bad person. I don't know I guess I'm just wanting advice on if I should continue talking to my dad and trying or just drop it and stop trying
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Honestly sometimes u have to cut toxic people out of your life for the better.

man I'd be inclined to say keep trying, but the CPS thing is my biggest hang up here. I know it sucks to think about having to part ways with your dad (I am also a daddy's girl) but I guess the question is, at what point do you decide that enough is enough? like what would it take for you to definitively decide to cut him off? is this causing issues with your marriage?

Cut your dad out. I’m so sorry but you need to. That man is never going to be on your or your children’s side. And you do not want your kids caught up in this.

This all boils down to your dad being a bitch for any women he’s with. Kicks you, his own daughter, out for some chick? Now his new chick feels some type of way about your husbands teenage decisions so your own dads gunna call cps on his own daughter? You’re a “daddy’s girl” for this man? Uh-uh girl. You need to be a “husbands girl” because that’s the person who’s really there for you.

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