Birthday ideas

My husband has challenged me to send him 31 things I wanna do for my 31st birthday and I need ideas. I’m more interested in activities than gift ideas. He’s a workaholic so I’m using this as an opportunity to force time together lol Rn all I have is picnic in park with the kids, comedy show, watch new season of black mirror together. Babies are too young to leave for more than a few hours, day at most so no big trips or anything rn. Please help me come up with things! Sexy ideas also welcome 😂
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Hike, bike ride, bar hopping, bowling, pickleball, fancy lunch/dinner, pottery or making something together, axe throwing, cooking class, boudoir photo shoot, picking out new “toys/games” together, candlelit concert, day trip to somewhere close-45ish minutes, shopping, flower/fruit picking, day on the lake/pool, blindfolded cooking challenge, volunteer somewhere meaningful to the both of you, make a vision board, paint each other with foods…lick it off, DIY canvas/paints and create a portrait of each other. Laugh after about how terrible it looks…🤣 clean the house together naked. Etc…….💕💕💕

Bowling, top golf, couples massage, Groupon is a great place to get ideas too!

Star gazing Camp fire and marshmallows Ice skating Indoor skydiving Couples spa day Cinema No-phone dinner (with kids too) Watching the sun set Family day at the zoo/aquarium

-Give each other a sensual massages -karaoke night -one on one board game night (chess, battleship, cribbage, etc.) -shopping trip (could be at a thrift shop) where you each choose things for the other to try on (either goofy stuff, or nice things you would like them to wear). -professional photoshoot (lilac and sunflower fields are coming into season) -murder mystery dinner theatre -hot air balloon ride -if you can get a sitter, one night in fancy hotel (room service, jacuzzi tub, etc,) -that thing from modern family where you pretend to be strangers and he picks you up in a bar (or you pick him up, it is 2025 after all)

-couples questions challenge. Find a set of questions online or ask ChatGPT (stuff like “what do you hope our lives will look like in 5 years?” “What is your biggest fear about the future?” “Aside from the big things, like wedding day and birth of children, what is your favourite memory from our relationship so far?”). You each take the time to answer the questions separately in advance and then make the date about sharing your answers with each other to spur discussions.

Send him a list of 31 places you’d like to go for a quick weekend trip. Then let him plan it all and surprise you with whichever place he picks and what to do there.

Board game/card game for the two of you or a Murder mystery game

I would make a list of categories and then choose things to go in each category. 1. Family Time Items or Experiences 2. Personal Items just for you 3. Things you can do as a couple. Maybe 10 for each and then one big thing like a weekend or night away?

1. Plant a tree/plant together 2. Watch a sports game together 3. Play bowling together 4. Watch a sunset together

Skydiving!!! lol

Museum, hit the bar, a fancy restaurant, national parks, read a smut book together, window shop (an adult store if you’re feeling silly/sexy), board game night, couples massage, painting, local fairs, coffee date, bicycling, back yard camping,… You could also each make a bucket list and pick a few things you have in common and do them together!

Paintballing, mini golf, rage room, go karting, arcade, all day spa, karaoke lounge, game board cafe, puppy yoga, day trip to another city, or go see a musical

Come dine with me date night! Two nights in a row this is. One person does starter, main & pudding with an activity and the other rates it out of 10 then vice versa the next night 😊 Plus you both get fed as well 🤪

LOVE ALL OF THESE! Thank you guys 😊

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@Dana 🦅♥️🤍💙 so smart, this will definitely make it easier! Thank you

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