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Me and my husband have been "trying" for baby number 2 for over a year now with no luck. The reasons I say "trying" is that my husband shows no interest in this even though he agreed to wanting another baby. I'm so frustrated with him and feel like I have to force him to have sex with me during ovulation times which alway seems to much effort for him. He never initiates sex any more so generally at the moment we only really have sex around the 2 weeks of ovulation. I have asked him so many times about why this is and if he truly wants baby number 2. He often says I don't mind either way, I really want another baby as this is something we agreed in when we got married and thought out our relationship. I'm starting to feel like I resent him for not trying and I'm getting to the age where I feel I'm too old to try anymore. No matter how I raise it I still get no where and nothing changes.

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Interesting... I know from all ppl documentary, social media, YouTube etc etc guys don't care if baby 2 or 1 comes They don't want more work, they don't babies in general ( it's a nice thought, if it happens out happens) but if it's a mission to have sex, they ain't interested, if it's too have baby, it's like a guy using woman to get sex and woman using man for his wallet ever if the man is 60yr old and she 30 or 20yr girl with 40 -50yr guy. Try making sex about him and fun, if u have 1 kid, and u depend on him because its 2yr old.. then another baby will kill him and his wallet and his energy. He's already out to lunch. I think u guys been arguing for year. I think he gives u what sex u want out him.

I think there's missing info. I know women that will rip guys head off for baby 2 or 3 and guy is like its too much. They fight and threat divorce and the there is passive guys. Maybe he's fine w baby 2 abs doesn't care if it happens. Or maybe he doesn't want argue. But I do know his life purpose isn't to be a dad. Men don't grow up thinking...I can't wait to be dad and pay bills and buy diapers and change poop and bathe in ambiance of misery with no sex. If it comes great, if not, companion and some sex is enough. Women, lot of them have the tools for carrying a baby it's one of our body purposes... not men. Men do things for free if in love and happy . .. which is dangerous cause having only fans and porn and another girl in his heart will take his money..I wonder who came up with future faking? Guys lie a lot. But so do women.