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If your partner comes home after work & just plays the game but doesn't spend time with you till it's bedtime how do you ask for quality without sounding angry, why do I always have to ask its like do he care to make time for me?
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My partner is the same, he wants to spend 'Us' time but all he means is sex. He spent all yesterday morning gaming whilst I cleaned the house and did the laundry, we took LG to the park then as soon as we got home he was back on his game whilst I played with, fed and bathed LG again alone. I've asked multiple times to the point now I just don't bother because it ends up in an argument 🙃

Currently got this issue - comes home from work, makes sham and does a feed but then sits on his computer ALL night before he goes to bed. No quality time whatsoever.

I would make a point to let him know that you miss him & doing things with him. Make it more about you guys and less about the game. Ask if there’s anything he’d like to do together even come up with some ideas. I know most men who game after work are trying to escape something or leave reality. It’s hard being on the outside so try to insert yourself in a positive way if you are looking for a positive outcome. I don’t know your guys dynamic , so hopefully he’s not just an immature ass that my mature advice wouldn’t apply to 🙃🙃. Good luck mama 🫶🏽

@Mariah thank you!❤️

My ex was like this, he never changed . There were times when he did but he always ended up back on the game. It’s an addiction, as bad as drugs and to be honest I’m glad it’s over now. I’m with my husband who’s obsessed with watches and speakers instead. Random but far Less deteriorating than video games

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