Is it me am I the drama?
quick background info I recently went out of town for 5days on a girls trip and left our 1 year old daughter in the care of her father (my boyfriend) and was not worried he wasn’t capable of being alone with her that long. the plan was for her to attend daycare Wednesday and Thursday and my mom to watch her Friday while dad was at work, but as soon as I leave my parents took it upon themselves to go against this plan. on Wednesday they both went to the daycare and disrupted her classroom and both days my dad took it upon himself to pick her up from daycare and not tell my boyfriend. on top of that my mom was over every afternoon until late into the night which really threw our daughter off her night schedule. my boyfriend was really annoyed and felt like they didn’t trust him to take care of her alone and instead of asking if he needed help or waiting for him to reach out, they went against our plan and totally took over. so am I wrong for being upset about how they handled everything?
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No, I would be pretty pissed about that
You aren’t the drama, your parents are lol. This sounds like they both undermined your boyfriend who is the child’s father not just some random boyfriend. There was a plan in place and it sounds like he was more than capable of taking care of his child and they felt otherwise. I think you need to go have a sit down with both of your parents just the three of you and discuss this. This seems like there’s more than them just wanting to help and I think you need to set the record straight that he’s a capable father and you didn’t appreciate them doing what they did and changing the plan
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I don’t to be rude… but wtf. I would be pissed. And I think if this was us my husband , he would be pissed that my parents thought so little of him that they had to step in. The lack of communication and pushing a boundaries at that level can lead to really dangerous behaviors. It 100% sounds like they took advantage of your absence. As mothers, we should feel comfortable, taking a break and enjoying much needed. “Me time” this type of thing would make me nervous as hell