is it just me but for you’re significant other to refer with something you had to do with “ task “ isn’t it kinda rude to refer as that?

My significant other came from work and got upset because the bed was a mess, since i was putting our clothes away , but I had errands i had to do and i had lunch and fed our son isn’t it rude to be treated that way like not understanding? and referring to things i had to do with the word “ task “? how i couldn’t complete a simple “ task “.