Pregnant with second after pre-eclampsia with first

I've just found out I'm pregnant with my second after 8 months of trying, so absolutely over the moon, but after the initial excitement I'm now worried about how I can prevent getting pre-eclampsia again in this pregnancy. We have agreed if I get pre-eclampsia again then this will be my final pregnancy, which I really don't want as I always envisioned 3 or 4 kids. With my first I got diagnosed at 36w5d, then got induced and had her at 37w, but lost a fair amount of blood and ended up needing a blood transfusion. She always measured in the 99th percentile, and was only 8st pre pregnancy and 5ft3, so on the small side, which I don't know if this had anything to do with it, but given my partner is tall, I'm expecting the have a big baby this time round too. Is there anything I can do to help prevent it a second time round? I know they will likely prescribe aspirin, but I want to do anything additional to help. Also, now having intense feelings of guilt that my first will no longer have all our love and attention.