Am I wrong to be mad

My brother in law got married almost a year before us and thru a fit when we announced our engagement a month later (we were already engaged we waited to be able to give them time to shine) but apparently that wasn't long enough and all 3 other brothers took his side now we are expecting our first child end of august and another brother just announced he will be having his wedding less than a week after my due date ... Am I wrong to be mad and feel like they are a bunch of hypocrites? They also have been pretty much AWOL like it's like pulling nails to get any info for the baby shower or anything. I have already decided I don't want the other brother to meet our daughter and my partner agrees because he took it too far so I wouldn't go anyway but I'm still very frustrated at the hypocrisy!

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So I know NOBODY wants to go to a large event with a newborn… so maybe don’t if you’ve had the baby before the wedding but personally I’d join in on the petty. First pregnancies tend to go overdue and while you’ll be uncomfortable and just wanting to rest… you’d also have the attention. That’s what this is - your BIL is pitching a fit for an attention grab. Petty part of me would say F U and have the baby at the wedding lmaooo

But no you’re not wrong to be frustrated

Shes not my first pregnancy sorry I should have put that also I did say we have already decided not to go due to me not being comfortable with the other brother meeting or being around my daughter also wedding is in Arizona we live in iowa. I just feel like the worst wife because I feel so angry about it and my partner whom is autistic doesn't show much emotion about it

Ohh ok, the post says first child my bad. And absolutely have to do what’s best for you

@Liv oh i meant ours together my bad it's my partners so their first niece I don't have custody of my first 2 I adopted them out when they were younger cuz I was too young and not ready to be a mama

So I kinda sorta took the petty route ... I took it upon myself this morning to respond with a simple text saying needless to say we will not be attending your wedding as you chose your date to be literally 4 days before my first born is due ... Sorry