How helpful was your partner right after labor
My mom was my rock for both of my deliveries with my son and daughter meanwhile I just had my daughter and what he has done was get me food or if I forgot something at home go get it and things of that nature changed like 1 diaper only because my mom asked him too he asks me am I ok but it’s not genuine he doesn’t help me shower or help me go to the bathroom he pretty much plays the game and will go str8 to sleep as if I don’t need rest because we also have an almost 2 year old thank god I have nurses who help me get sleep and watch our daughter for two hours til it’s time to nurse again but then whenever he was hurting he complains that I didn’t baby him enough😂😂😂 then he also had the nerve to ask me while we’re at the hospital if he can go out with with his brothers this weekend 🤦🏾♀️thankfully my mother is off this weekend to help me
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My husband did everything for me the first few weeks of PP. All I did was feed and change the baby and slept when I wanted to. I’m sorry you’re going through this.
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My partner did absolutely everything for me and the baby, I did the feeding and changing of baby etc and he ran around after us bless him. He made sure I had food, drinks etc. He obviously did the baby bits too but more the rest whilst I was recovering. I struggled with pain after my seconds so helped a lot. He didn’t touch his game at all. My partner can be a lazy bugger and even now 3 years on really lazy but I can never ever fault him for the way he was after birth both times. Once he was back at work and I was doing all on my own he was still great when still recovering but then I was fine he slipped back to his own ways 😂😂. Even when I’m poorly he’ll take over and let me rest if I’m bad. You’ve just had a baby he should be helping as much as possible. Everyone is different I suppose. Maybe talk to him? X