Miserable

My partner makes me just feel so unwanted. I cry almost every day, today is no different. Told him how lonely I feel, he pays me no attention only talks to me to tell me to do something if he wants something. Other than that I am ignored. He doesn’t cuddle me, we don’t spend time together. He looks at me as if I make him feel sick it’s a god awful look and when I catch him doing it and just rips my heart out. Today he’s told me he can’t stand me, I put him off, and I am the worse relationship he has ever been in. That I’m a miserable b*astard. Said he doesn’t want me and no one else will either. I feel hurt and humiliated. I’m now being left to cry again with his back to me while he sleeps.

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Can I ask why you’re with someone who puts you down and obviously disrespects you? you can’t possibly be in love with someone who makes you feel miserable. Girl, you’re the prize and start treating yourself like it. I’m not sure if you’re asking for advice or not but if I were you, my ass would be gone or prepping myself and kids to make that move. You’ll be happier alone than with your loser husband.

@Samantha thank you. I don’t really know what I’m asking. Just need to get it out. I’m starting to hate myself. I don’t look in the mirror anymore because I hate what I see now because I believe when he says no one will want me. He doesn’t notice me at all. And worst part I see him looking at other women. He doesn’t even hide it, it makes me feel so worthless. The only time he comments on my appearance is to make jokes about the way I look or comment on what’s wrong with me. Last thing he said to me before he rolled over to go to sleep is that I should do everyone a favour and fuck off and disappear.

I’m sorry you’re going through this. No one deserves to be treated like that. I think it’s time for you to do just that… disappear out of his life.

@Samantha I’ve been thinking about it for the last couple of weeks just leaving. I would be so so happy with the bare minimum but he doesn’t even think I deserve that. I have gave him all of me and I get heartache in return. I try and try my best to make him happy and nothing I do is ever good enough because I am not good enough for him. I just want to be happy at this point and I feel like that will only happen if I am alone.

aww sweetie, take this as big sister advice. No man ever is worth you feeling like that, and no amount of you loving him and make him happy will make him change to treat you any better. stop pouring into his cup and pour all that love you have into your self. Think he realises that you do not want to leave him and love him too much and he uses that to get away with his shitty behaviour. Put you first and your mental health and leave. message me if you want to chat.

U need to leave him

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