SD issue

Sometimes I feel like the step parent life isn’t for me. I love my husband, but I don’t want to constantly feel like our household routine gets thrown off because my SD is here and that all bets are off. We have gotten to the point where she doesn’t really acknowledge me like that anymore. My husband acts like being authoritative to her isn’t fair because he doesn’t want to ruin the mood during the time she is here and because she only gets to be here on the weekends every weekend.

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Girl I’m right there with ya. My husband and I have been battling some big emotions when it comes to this exact scenario so if you wanna message me you’re more than welcome to :)

This has to be nipped in the bud. She can’t run the dynamics of the household just because she is there. Talk to your husband. This will get worse with age and he has to be the one to put his foot down. She has to give respect to both of you.

@Haja girl im in the car right now just to get away from her. I cant stand it. We just had a conversation last night. There is no accountability when it comes to her. Shes doesnt think she has to do anything and people make it okay. And by people I mean her mom’s side and his mom. They put her on a pedastool. Its crazy. Nobody wants to barely say anything to her because nobody wanna hurt her fucking feelings and make her not wanna come over. Too fucking bad. Our house our rules. Dont like it and wont abide by it stay at your moms. But God forbid if she wants to come home her mom is like hell no

Her mom think parenting a chore

We had this talk too. Several times !

I'm right there with you. I have two of my own kids that he SD but they live with us full time and we're expecting our first baby together in a month. Since my girls are with us all the time they know the routine but when my SD is here she runs the place and can do no wrong it makes me sick

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