@Katie louise he has been verbally abusive to our son in front of me, so I have no idea what he’s like when he spends the night with him. He is on his birth certificate, but going to seek legal help to see what can be done x
I think that’s the best options - the courts are all for parents to be involved even if it’s not the best interest of the child. It’s terrible x
@Katie louise thank you for your response, currently trying to figure things out but he’s refusing to cooperate! Hopefully I’ll manage to get some support x
Even if you went to courts - even if he’s done stuff to you as long as he hasn’t done stuff to the kids they will let the kids see him either supervised, contact centre, but you can’t legally stop him from seeing them ( as long as he’s on Birtj certificate) obviously if he’s not on it you can stop him and he can take you to courts to be put on BC and see kids. If you don’t consider him safe then you can suggest contact centre. X