Dating advice!

Y’all please help me lol. I’m 32, 2 kiddos been single since for a while and I’m just now giving myself the opportunity to get back out there. I really don’t know how to date anymore 😩😅. I haven’t been on a date in maybe 8 years. So I need all the tips and tricks I can get. I literally don’t know where to start. Having kids involved gives me anxiety. I was invited to a concert this weekend but I have mom guilt and don’t wanna go because of it. I’m with my kiddos every single day, I work from home and their dad usually comes to my house to hang out with them so I’m literally never away from them… I also wouldn’t know what to wear. Idk I’m just lost y’all. Somebody help me out 😅😂