He always lies

I genuinely can’t stop crying. I thought he was going to step up and do the right thing for once but he doesn’t. He always pretends he never wanted our son but I swear to god last year we tried and tried for him. We moved into a four bedroom home and got married to HAVE kids. Now we have our baby he blames me for every little thing and says I wanted the baby etc I have to deal with the trouble but the thing is that I LOVE our son and he is NO Trouble to me. I just need support and my husband makes so many damn promises to help but doesn’t do a damn thing. I can’t divorce him he provides everything financially and occasionally strength wise if you know what I mean. Like he will drive us (I don’t have a licence but I’m learning) and he will manoeuvre things which I can’t. It’s so hard because he lies about so much like where he spends his money and what he’s doing and also cancels on plans last minute. We were supposed to be in the Caribbean and he cancelled the NIGHT Before. Then we was supposed to go to Sicily in Italy and again he cancelled the NIGHT BEFORE. I’m so exhausted because I was so excited for these trips and he just cancels and he lies about going on them. Just wish I could afford life to leave him and be happy with my baby alone . I hate that I know how important a dad is .. I don’t want my son to be without a father aswell

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To book the Caribbean and cancel the night before don’t sit right , it’s not a cheap holiday & he wouldn’t get a refund so my guess is he never actually booked it & if he did he’s too much money to waste . Every child deserves a dad in their life same as a mom but if the other parent is making u feel this upset you need to come away for ur own peace . He can still be a dad to your baby

He booked it but he’s a high earner so he doesn’t care if he cancels things. It hurts though because it’s not about the money to me it’s about the excitement of the trip evaporated after his cancellation and every piece of hope that is supposed to come from wanting to have a family trip together. He’s sent the money back to my account but I wanted our family trip so bad. He doesn’t even have an excuse to cancel other than the fact the flight is Early. He knew this for weeks now though and I booked us an airport hotel to make it relaxing and it still isn’t good enough for him

We’re sleeping separately tonight because I’m just so fed up of him switching up his mind all of the time and wasting mine and the babies excitement for a family holiday and just his general lies which happen too often.

If he lies like you say he lies, that is something worth worrying about. That's not a good characteristic trait to have as a person, let alone a husband or father. You need to have a really really serious talk with him about his honesty and how much you can truly trust him. Lies about vacations is probably the least of ur worries. Imho you really need to reevaluate your relationship and if staying for money is really worth it. If you can't trust him what is it really worth?

you don’t need a vacation you need couples therapy

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