I need help.

I would seek family help or a friends help to get out of that situation

@Jessica I can't consult family.. yhe only person I trust is my mom and she loves him to death I've had problems before pregancy and she sided with him and friends...well I don't have any I'm not gonna lie.. I lost most of them

Have you ever thought of maybe slowly getting yourself on your feet like getting a job from home and help from the government without him knowing they help single moms get into housing as well as give you and your child Medicare and Ebt for food

PLEASE please please research a way to make some income, or ask friends or family for help. You need to get out of this situation—he has control over you and you don’t want this to spiral

@Emily I've been trying to get on disability for awhile

@Jessica sadly I only have a high school education I quit in 11th and haven't finished and it's alot harder to find one I'm also a younger mom and wasn't taught how to do alot of that stuff either I am on pregancy issuance and wic rn

It’s time you stand up on your own two feet & make a better life for yourself & child/children. 💊 Make sure you’re taking any medication regularly for your illness & do not let that get in the way of your parenting at all. Remember, you should be a healthy, positive role model for your kids. 💰 Time to get your own income. What are your talents? Baking? Sewing? Think of what you enjoy doing & try to make a business you can run from home because you cannot rely on someone to support you & need your own savings. 🏡 Can you apply to live with someone you trust for the time being? A close relative or family friend? You need some time to think about yourself without having the toxic energy coming from a partner who is degrading you & not allowing you to be your own person..

Most importantly, I hope you realise that this person you live with is TRASH. The way he treats you is a reflection of his poor character & until you do not take a stand & make something of yourself, you’re allowing him to control & manipulate you. It’s going to be hard ‘& a huge adjustment but do not settle for this, it will be well worth it I promise 🫶🏻

Start documenting things he says/ does which aren’t nice and start to build a narrative of what happens. Finical control, psychological manipulation and using the fear of court proceeding is all counted as domestic abuse under the Domestic Abuse Act 2021 so if you did leave him and things went to court you would have more than a good chance of having full custody with him most likely having visitation rights. Your housing situation you can get help for or even apply to council housing ect. You and your child’s happiness and safety is more important than what your family thinks especially if they’re blind to the truth, in the long term your family will understand the relationship wasn’t good. I’ve just got my law degree and based my dissertation on domestic abuse, your situation is statistically scarily common with woman and unfortunately has a high rate of turning worse, get out when you can.

When I was much younger I was happier as a single mom than with a lousy partner

are you still pregnant? or have you already birthed his children? if you’re still pregnant, depending on where you live, you may be able to just not put him on the birth certificate. the man who contributed dna to my son was not good in the slightest so i left and then when i had my baby i only put myself on his birth certificate. i’d imagine he could probably try to sue to make you get a paternity test? but mine thankfully doesn’t actually care enough to go through that trouble. also you say your mom loves him, but does she love you more? and her grandchild? my moms sisters sided with my abusive father when she left him so ik family doesn’t always come through. i hope you can get some help from friends or family🩷maybe you could go to a shelter if it comes to it?