Should I leave my partner?

Sorry to put this in here but I feel like it’s the only way he’ll understand how close I am to leaving once I show my partner this post! We have a 10m old baby and have been together for 8 years, we’re engaged and have a house and he’s a great person. Really loving to us both and when he’s good, he’s the best. I know his intentions are good but unfortunately he never seems to see them through… Recently the things that have been affecting me are: - I’m back at work and I work shifts, including one where I’m back at 11pm after a 1hr commute, baby is breastfed but settles on my partner. However, as soon as I’m home, if baby wakes up (usually 3-5 times a night), he will try and soothe him for 2 mins and then pass him to me. Feel like this is unfair? I did every wake up for around 8 months and he slept. Especially when working?! - He always wants to chill at home, never suggests doing anything or any days out - Never, ever cooks food and even when he has to make it for my son, I have to explain it to him/meal prep it on my days off - Won’t clean or tidy up unless prompted, or he’ll do the tasks he likes without doing the ones that need doing - If we’re in a conversation and he gets a text from friends/family he will ignore me and reply to them as he thinks it’s rude if he doesn’t - We’ve had conversations to try and fix these issues almost bi-weekly at this point, with serious consideration to leaving but obviously really don’t want my son to grow up in separate households (also don’t want him growing up in an unhappy house though) - Finally, he knows nothing about the practicalities of looking after our son. He’s fun, loving and caring but shown no interest until I made him, in learning about food, how to prepare or serve food, car seat safety, sorting baby’s clothes out, the sleeping situation, breastfeeding, how to feed expressed milk and so on! He only knows what I’ve told him or what I’ve made him find out… but he is CONSTANTLY on his phone researching football and footballers, which makes me think is that more important than our child? Sorry again this is so long… in short, I don’t want to leave him, I love him and wish he’d change(!!!!!) but if it was you, what would you do? (I can financially support myself and baby so no concerns there) OR are my expectations too high of him and I’m being unreasonable as he provides a happy, healthy, caring and loving home to our baby? Thank you. I’ll be showing him the responses if there are any ❤️