Found OF missed subscription emails

I had my first baby around 7 months ago and we’ve been living paycheck to paycheck barely. I had a feeling to look and when I did there were two missed subscription payments for two different accounts one being around $25. I didn’t even look at the other one I didn’t even think to. I can understand if one gives into temptation and watches porn every once in a while but this is insanity. I am at a point where the infidelity bothers me less than the fact that we literally cannot afford those subscriptions. I’ve barely been able to look at him since. How would you confront this issue?

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No because living paycheck to paycheck yet paying for porn is insane. There’s Twitter dammit. Please devise a plan for you and your baby to get away from this man. A man that is weak like that cannot be trusted with funds or your love.

Dr. John Delony on YouTube has a few episodes from both sides how they feel and addressing porn addiction and how to handle it. If you have no money and he's still spending on it, he's probably got a problem that needs to be addressed

My husband and I both think paying for porn is cheating, you are paying to see/get off to another person when you have your spouse within arms reach. Let alone being paycheque to paycheque and still paying for it, would be a dealbreaker for me.

@Isabelle that’s my issue. We have both made fun of the concept of paying for porn when you can find everything on there on other apps and websites. He also tried to turn it into something else saying I was trying to look at his friends fuzzy because he claimed to have subscribed to his friends to support him. He figured I didn’t know who he was subscribed to.

So he even try to lie about it afterward?? Gross I’m so sorry

He’s disgusting and such a bad liar. The disrespect 🙄🙄🙄And men who pay for OF are so desperate especially those already in a relationship

My ex did this (we have no kids together) I got him binned and now have a baby with his best friend and I will be marrying him! Best decision I ever made

@Isabelle it’s okay I’m just honestly feel disappointed and disrespected. There’s no mad or sad left

@Isabelle I know for a fact I’ve had this conversation with him before as well. He knows I consider it cheating and I’m pretty understanding about porn on occasion but to be paying for subscriptions is absolutely insane. He told me I could be a stay at home mom and I’ve trusted it but knowing that this could be why we haven’t been able to keep money is daunting. One of my favorite celebrities too and I can’t even look at them the same

Yeah the fact that he’s buying porn subscriptions that are literally being declined cause he can’t afford them…. And he knew how you felt about it and still paid for the onlyfans is so disrespectful

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