How do you deal with with step son?

I wish I could tell you. My man stepped up to raise a girl that’s not his biologically his. And she is so spoiled and has behavior issues.

If you need someone to talk to I’m here and we can vent to each other

@Amy it so bad he is so like his mom and he doesn’t care about his sister at all he is very dangerous around her and I so want to punch him in the face my mom bear comes out

How old is he

When you choose a relationship with a single dad, you know it comes with challenges—even if the child isn’t biologically his. But your husband’s love for his chosen family is strong and beautiful. The child’s racist behavior isn’t okay, but it’s a chance to help shape his values. Kids act out from pain or insecurity—especially during big changes. Talk with your husband about healthy boundaries and focus on solutions, not resentment. You can really change this kids life. Now that you are his stepparent, be the best you can be and see that you have a powerful role to help him become a better person. 🙌💖 you can do this

@Gabriela im so sorry to hear this. On your profile it says you have adult aged step children. Is this child you’re referring to an adult?

@Dev 🇺🇸🇮🇪 yup

@Dev 🇺🇸🇮🇪 he never show him self until he turned 19 he was quite and to him self but lately it is totally white privileged

If he isn’t more respectful in the house, around you and the kids. At the end of the day you guys are doing him a favor by allowing him to live there. you guys should give him the opportunity and talk to him telling him that he need to change his attitude if not that his going to have to leave the house . Hes living under your roof and should respect the family and house . He can act how ever he wants outside of the house but in the house he should be respectful and keep racist comments to himself

Oh wow. Whew that sounds terrible! Sending you hugs. At that age it’s acceptable for you to put up some strong boundaries, especially because you mentioned that he may be dangerous. And racism is very very dangerous as well. You shouldn’t have to be uncomfortable and feeling unsafe in your own home ❤️

@Gabriela oh he’s much older that’s tough, have a discussion with his dad. If he lives in your house he isn’t his own adult yet and he needs to obey house rules

I’d be as accepting as possible of him and share my level of kindness to the world with him to show him how we treat people. The more he acts out and the more extreme your response the more he’ll do it