in California
am i in the wrong?
me & my bf rent an apt w one of his sisters, so his younger sister is here all the time with us, she’s 13 so she’s a bit much but i’m never ever mean to her, but she’s at our house every weekend & tbh he treats me differently when his sisters are around & not in a good way, but she’s here this weekend & tomorrow we have planned to go to my family’s for easter & the parents were going to pick her up & he told her “no just stay w us” & i said well are you going to take her home in the morning & he said “ why can’t she come w us” & i said well it’s not rlly my party to invite ppl, ( yes it’s my close family but im not providing the food & im not providing any money in the egg hunt) & now he’s throwing a fit saying my family is all abt money & that his family would never expect something from mine & im just like bro you never asked if your sister could come until now, i can ask if you family can come but omg he blew up..
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i think it’s a little rude of him to not ask you ahead of time so you’re on the same page. it would’ve been better so that you can let your family know you’re bringing someone! especially telling her to just stay over without checking in with you first. if it were me, i wouldn’t make a big deal of it this time, because it’s a family holiday it should be fun! but i would let him know that in the future you’d like to be on the same page, and talk to each other first before inviting his sisters or anyone else along to your plans
Just let him know that you will ask your parents if it’s okay so they can make room for one more child for the egg hunt.